So You Want to be a Leader?

First you must learn to follow

James Halliday
4 min readSep 30, 2020
Photo by Anna Samoylova — Unsplash

Can you lead without having first been a follower?

The Napoleon Hill Foundation doesn’t think so:

“No one is capable of giving direction unless he or she knows how to take directions and carry them out.”

Nor did Aristotle:

“He who has never learned to obey cannot be a good commander.”

Rick Beneteau had this to say:

“If you want to lead, first learn how to follow.”

So what does it mean, to learn to follow?

Here’s a simple question: How do you know what a leader looks like if you’ve never been a follower? You can study famous leaders and entrepreneurs, but until you’ve worked for a great leader, you’ll never really know.

To be a good leader, you need to develop a core set of skills, skills you learn by being a follower. Leaders can’t achieve much without a strong team behind them. And to be a good team player takes skill.

Of course, this doesn’t mean you don’t have opinions or are a “yes” person. Some of the best team members I’ve worked with are those who challenge the leader’s decisions; it forces the whole team to think. Blindly following orders is not a good trait.

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James Halliday
James Halliday

Written by James Halliday

Project manager in live television, background in engineering and logistics. Biker, vegan, dad to two tiny terrors. Love travel, food, walking and photography

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